The next person to make my wedding about them is going to punched in the face.
Seriously.....this is my wedding. This is my day. So many people are making it about them. My mother. My bridesmaid. Several guests. It's pretty much bull shit.
No, you can't go to my bachelorette party.
No, I'm not going to change the seating arrangements to suit you.
Oh, you added your own plus one....isn't that cute....
No, I don't have the address on me. It was on your invitation....
I don't care what people usually do. What I want to do is ______.
No, I'm not really going to call to see if the nail salon can squeeze you in also.
I'm such an accommodating person. I try to make everyone happy. It's actually kind of a problem. But right now, I just want to scream at the top of my lungs that this is my fucking wedding. It's not their wedding. For once, I get to do what I want.
I am so stressed out right now. I'm getting married in 10 days, and there is still so much to do. Every time I turn around, someone wants something from me. They want me to do something for them. It's pretty much making me crazy.
I really can't wait til this is all over. If I ever do this again (which obviously is kind of the opposite of the plan).....how about if I had to do it again, we would elope.
Update: The best thing yet....after the wedding had been all done for about a week, and the pictures that had been taken were posted on Facebook by whomever had taken them....my mother says to me "I noticed that there weren't very many pictures taken of me." Oh? Well that's a shame since it was obviously your wedding and you were obviously the most picture worthy person there. Jesus Christ.
The photographer's photos aren't back yet. There are pictures of her in there, I promise.